Start doing permanent self-improvement

It is surely efficient to step your game up when things aren’t going well, but think about what it would be like if you tried improving yourself even during good periods. You might find the tough times to be demanding for your mind and body, but if you took the permanent self-improvement road, it could reduce stress and bring you more fulfillment every day, even if you got turned down a few times this week, so no more bad streaks. A few concrete ways to start doing permanent self-improvement are physical training, seminars, self-improvement DVDs and books, and also finding mentors and icons to be inspired by.

Change what’s around you

It also might not be entirely your fault if your dating life isn’t meeting your expectations. Well, deep down it is entirely your fault, but what is meant here is that you might need to change your environment, social circle, job, etc. There are certainly places, people and situations that are more convenient for successful dating. It all comes down to whether you’re ready to make some changes and if they meet your other life goals in general.

Consider moving to a new city where your type of women or men will be more easily found. Nobody is locking you up in your own town. Don’t find yourself struggling with the girls or guys in your area if they just aren’t what you’re looking for. Open up your mind.

Are your friends people that will really support you in evolving and becoming a better person, or every time you find yourself having success they seem to put you down and not be genuinely happy for you? Also, some people don’t like change altogether, good or bad, so if you want to change and evolve every day, find people that will allow you do so. You can also try to modify your schedule so you do see these motivating people more often than the others.